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Hey ECS take a step back and chill mate, things could be worse.

1. Tell her how you feel, if she wont compromise at least then she aint worth it. Are there any actual signs she's smokin and messing around with this guy? Maybe you two need a break, might do you good.

2. Dont ask for a pay rise, DEMAND one. Tell them your going to leave if you dont get it and im sure they'll do something for you rather than lose you.

3. Insurance is a rip but it will go down giving you more free cash to save for a better car.

4. If theres really no other jobs around then maybe consider moving? Im not sure how old you are so not sure if this is an option. I moved to the other end of the UK to start my current job and its been a real adventure and made me a better person. Dont feel trapped by your home town theres a whole world out there just waiting for you.

5. Points 2, 3 and 4 will help that. even the best of us steal anyway


Dont let things get you down, life is never straight forward and for every down theres an up waiting to happen. In the last 3 weeks my grandfather has died and my gf of 3years has left me but im still here and loving life.

Look at every problem as a challenge and an adventure.


EDIT : PS just read your plan and that sounds perfect mate. With the right finance deal new cars can work out pretty cheaply, just make sure you bargain with them and get a good finance APR, NEVER accept their first offer good luck mate!

with regards to watching your money make up a excel spreadsheet charting all your money coming in and going out. work out exactly what you can afford then stick to it. maybe save a little to treat yourself now and then!

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[ This Message was edited by: SCORPIONKING1982 on 2006-04-21 01:40 ]
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:34:09
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@SCORPIONKING, you know, i never condsidered moving. i will be 20 in june, so i could do it. i would have to probobly get a room mate to help me, but i really think i could do it. i might talk to a few people and see what i can do.
im glad everything with you is going good now...
i am going to look at everything as an adventure and a challange... hopefully it will give me a new outlook on things. thanks!
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:38:23
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@ecs - As what my MOM always told me . . . "if you THINK you have a Mega Byte problem, there is still some peeps who have a Giga Byte problems, or WORST than what you always have at present" . . .

About your Babe, look for another one as the ration is 4:1 (boys:girls) and that statistics was done in the Cro-magnon era ! Don'ty waste your precious time with TRAMP ladies like that ! I know the FEEL as I was involved with a beauty queen before (shared her HEART with 6 of us) !

Now, if everything ELSE fails . . . try the ROPE (tied on the ceiling) dude just kidding here . . . Good Luck!

Can ypu now PM to me your pic with your GF (long over due promise of yours) . . . sio I can JUDGE for myself if she's WORTH it . . .
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:39:45
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Hey ECS i moved out when I was 17 dude! It was hard but I now firmly believe that its the best thing I've ever done. It makes you so independant! if you want to talk about the whole moving thing drop me a PM.
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:43:24
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@jn, she was with 6 people?!?!? crazy!!
i will PM you the only pic i have right now (it will take me a minute).

@SCORPIONKING PM

[ This Message was edited by: eastcoaststar on 2006-04-21 01:44 ]
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:43:26
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On 2006-04-21 02:43:24, SCORPIONKING1982 wrote:
Hey ECS i moved out when I was 17 dude! It was hard but I now firmly believe that its the best thing I've ever done. It makes you so independant! if you want to talk about the whole moving thing drop me a PM.



@scorpion - Whaaat 17 years old :eek I am already 37 and I am still living with my parents . . . just waiting for my parents to . . . . so I can own the ESTATE That's LIFE in the US, once you've reached the age of 17 and 18 . . . your on your own ! That's why I have 2 lucky cousins in CA, who is only aged 18 (female) and 20 (male) . . . my Uncle gave them both Bimmers as their DEBUT gifts . . a 325 for the male and a 323 for the female . . . lucky guys huh . . . . don't have to work hard for those cars !
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Posted: 2006-04-21 02:56:59
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Hey JN im in the UK mate

I moved away on my own with no help from my family, ive done it all off my own back and im proud of it!
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Posted: 2006-04-21 03:07:26
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@scorpion - I thought you live in the US mate That's GOOD, you worked hard for the money . . . Congrats!
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Posted: 2006-04-21 03:27:27
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nope im the good old uk mate lol

thanks dude, hope you get that estate soon too
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Posted: 2006-04-21 03:29:29
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not too many people on here love in the US. maybe i would be better off in the uk

thank you all again for your help, it is really helping me alot.
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Posted: 2006-04-21 03:32:28
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