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I did this same thing and wrote to my Dad about 4 years ago, guess i was curious. He still lived at the same address so i sent a letter and got a reply. To cut a long story short we met up i saw him for a couple of months once a week and then sent him an email (people can say that was mean but where was he all my life?) that i didn't want to see him again.

Just didn't feel right at all. He was all over me but i realised that i didn't need him in my life and my Mum has always and will always be the most important and precious thing in my life. He didn't reply and i've heard nothing since (quite happy this way) and don't want to hear from him again.

I know you don't get on with your Mum but think long and hard before you decide to do this and the reasons behind it. I was lucky my Dad was all over me and wanted to start over but it didn't feel right. Are you prepared if he turned round and told you he wanted nothing to do with you?

Whatever you decided to do best of luck and i hope it works out well.


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Posted: 2007-07-24 16:24:35
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I know it could turn out pear shaped in the longrun but it's my dads mother she is getting on abit and I think if ive anything left of a family then I should go about this now (Get it over with)

My Mom will be upset but after what shes put m through she's upset me saying alot of shite like "I wish you had never been born"

she has dis-owned me properly and I feel this is the next step im not doing it cos of her Im doing it cos I think it's necessary

1 little note can go along way but I have to think what to write lol


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Posted: 2007-07-25 01:21:40
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Well it sounds like you have made up your mind already and it also sounds like you have nothing to lose if you do.

Good luck and I hope it all goes well for you!


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Posted: 2007-07-25 08:36:36
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Yeah I'll get onto the letter haven't a clue what im gonna write lol
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Posted: 2007-07-25 16:27:27
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Do you know when his birthday is? You could send him a card.
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Posted: 2007-07-25 16:29:34
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No I know nothing about him except he's a year older then my mum
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Posted: 2007-07-25 16:43:23
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I sent a letter last Friday so hmm the wait will be a fright
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Posted: 2007-09-26 18:55:53
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gud luck
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Posted: 2007-09-26 19:16:38
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I hope you can reach out to her heart. Best of luck..
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Posted: 2007-09-26 20:28:36
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Yeah thanks i'll keep all informed what happens
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Posted: 2007-09-27 00:28:14
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