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Muhammad-Oli Posts: > 500
On 2008-02-16 14:53:23, ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ wrote:
You know what, i'm sposed to be going to a party tonight, me 1 mate and 5 girls....it's an *all night* party too at one of the girls house, we're staying there.
Now, do I go or not?
We're not going out and she won't even talk to me, do i throw this opportunity away for something that may not even happen or do I just go, but behave myself.
I won't do anything, but I feel guilty about going...hmm
Go man! Like you said, you're not going out with the girl.
What you should do at the moment is take your mind off things with her for at least a couple of days, and focus on keeping yourself happy. So go out, have fun. Its nothing to do with her what you get up to.
She has blocked you which likely means she doesn't want to talk at the moment, and so you just have to wait it out until she does want to talk!
Try her in a few days mate.
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Posted: 2008-02-16 15:01:07
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Someone once told me, " you have to throw a lot of darts at the board before you score a bullseye"
I envy those guys who end up with school friends as their lifelong partners, i was in my mid 20s before i met the right person after many false starts
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Posted: 2008-02-16 15:05:35
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On 2008-02-16 15:05:35, mweb6161 wrote:
Someone once told me, " you have to throw a lot of darts at the board before you score a bullseye"
I envy those guys who end up with school friends as their lifelong partners, i was in my mid 20s before i met the right person after many false starts
I agree with that statment and i guess i will go through many girls before i find the right 1 now lol
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Posted: 2008-02-16 16:06:02
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Thanks guys, sounds silly but I actually feel better lol, I was sitting here all yesterday thinking about it all, now other people know and i realise it's not really something i've done I feel a bit better.
Just wondering are you all still fairly young? I turned 20 in November. (is that young or old lol). she's 19.
I'm sh*tting myself about tonight lmao, I think my mate basically realised that i've been down and that's why he's only invited me out with loads of girls, as you said, to take my mind of things.
I never know what to say though, thass why I plan to be nice and drunk before I go, drinking starts at 6 lol. Talking to 1 girl, with a mate is fine, but he's there with this girl he's seeing....and i'm gunna have to do stuff with about 5 other girls who i never met.
You know the shy type, who sits there, does sod all then goes home...well that's basically me lol, not sure what i'm going to do tonight, I don't plan to think about it. The plan is, leave my phone at home (no stupid drunken calls to people that way), go out and then just wake up in the morning and hope my trousers are still on lmao.
But I agree, girls always say it's men who loose the plot etc, they don't have a clue what they're doing to us lol.
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Posted: 2008-02-16 16:20:49
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@garlic, happened to me too!!
I was with her for 3 years and she just vanished and stopped talking to me. I was such a gentleman too and gave her everything.
(then again, all my friend's who've had Japanese girlfriends have had that happen
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Posted: 2008-02-16 18:59:13
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how old are you/her?
Also worth noting that you can never give a women everything she want's and treat her really good, theres no point as it's not what they want.
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Posted: 2008-02-16 19:19:03
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You want my advice? you might not like it! Walk away, I have been in a similar situation but over a much longer time period, ultimatly the depression will drive you away or drag you down too
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Posted: 2008-02-16 19:26:46
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guys, i hope you don't mind me butting in on your thread!
ÈL ® ö B ì Ñ i think your girlie is seriously attention seeking. she's only 19 and imo there have been some difficulties, maybe at home, work, with other boyfriends... that she hasn't found a way to deal with. the cutting-u-off on msn is the ultimate test, but imo she punishes herself too! best to wait to see if she comes back to u. check to see if u r still blocked in a few days... but this will be an even more difficult time. if u contact her u run the risk of saying the wrong thing and getting blocked again!
i really hope u have a good night out with the girls!
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Posted: 2008-02-16 19:26:57
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ah, the female logic, the mind boggles. Could be anything mate, she may think that you want a go as she's "low", as people have said, see how things pan out and see what happens, if she realises that she has made a mistake and comes back it's all good, if not, it was never meant to be.
But as mweb said, you have to throw lots of darts, always alway remember that there are plenty more fish in the sea, I know it's hard to keep that in mind when something you hold close has gone but it's true fella, I'm mid 20s and I still haven't found Miss Right (Well, except for Wifey, she's brill) but you plod on, live each day as it comes something somewhen will happen..
as for that party... why are you still here? get there! it was planned before Wed night I take it? if so, of course you go, you don't undo plans all because someone is there, face "problems" don't run away from them! (and there's another 4 girls there!!!!!)
Good luck fella
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Posted: 2008-02-16 19:32:25
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Go to the party, your not going out with her so go out and have a nice time. It sounds like she has issues that she needs to sort out, you've done nothing wrong at all. Leave her be and let her come to you, if that is what she wants. There is somewhere out there for everyone just takes some people longer than others to find them. Men are from venus and women are from mars, the day we understand each other is the day the world ends, will always be the same.
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Posted: 2008-02-16 19:42:09
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