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You have mine support as well.
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Posted: 2011-08-04 07:34:35
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Thanks everyone......
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Posted: 2011-08-04 12:18:02
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So how are you now? (honestly worried after reading your story ) i have a brother that i almost lost 3 years ago due to severe depression, now he has a family as his very strength

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Posted: 2011-08-08 06:43:44
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Hi Nic,

Give her some space maybe its Menopause or
Something, saying that though did you both go out together Dinners,
Spending time together is essential in making relationships last.

If you go to work watch tv eat n go.bed each night
Then it does sound boring.

Not having a pop at you but ur wife maybe bored for other reasons

Anyway have a break she will contact you when shes ready.
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Posted: 2011-08-17 03:21:00
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Thanks again everyone for your kind comments. we are getting on as "Friends" but she tells me there is a chance she will change her mind she just can't say for sure or when..... But I am prepared to wait..... I am back to work and have been for a few weeks... It's difficult I work as a Scaffolder and although I am trying to give my work my undivided attention she is on my mind 24/7. I see My daughters 4/5 times a week and although they were different to me initially they are back to their old selves now.....
Throughout our circle of friends not one person has come forward and said they saw this coming..... Everyone is surprised.
My Wife is the love of my life always has been and always will be.......
My state of mind Is fine now My circle of friends have been excellent and people who found out who I know on Twitter have also been Brilliant.
Last of all a special thank you to Streetgang he contacted me just after the first post and we have exchanged Numerous emails and his advice has helped me a lot....
Thanks......
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Posted: 2011-08-17 21:29:06
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congratulation for the advancement mate.. keep going.. Best of luck. Happy for you..
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Posted: 2011-08-18 15:37:06
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Sorry I was late in I too wish you luck & all the best
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Posted: 2011-08-18 22:44:17
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Thanks everyone for your Comments. I am fine now and although we are still apart we are getting on ok. I have a question though but may need a woman to answer.....
My wife expects me to dislike her for what she has done to me but I don't and feel quite the opposite, if I Pay her a Compliment she says it's weird and when I visit the Family Home to see my Daughters If she is there she says it's weird talking to me.... We are talking about everyday things not about our Situation. I spoke to a Lady friend of mine who left her Husband and she says it's because My Wife expects me to hate her and because I don't she can't deal with it.... Well surely that's not my problem????
Don't know if this Makes Sense.
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Posted: 2011-09-11 22:26:26
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See, How the table has turned. I am saying this from my judging sense and my little experience with girls -- i think now she is frustrating for what she has done to you and herself. But the way you are behaving normal and caring with her made her more guilty. Its a girly feeling. Even God cant predict the nature of women then we are just a poor men. My suggestion for you is just keep doing what you are doing and once in a while have a calm talk with her about the whole situation and make her realise your own way that you have forgiven her and she should also let go the feeling of frustration.

Best of luck.

Ps. Once every thing gets okay between both of you, pls change the subject of this thread cause now you are not in despair any more.
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Posted: 2011-09-12 06:41:04
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Expect the worst...
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Posted: 2011-09-14 03:24:00
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