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Thanks Cycovision, it's really nice of you to wish good luck to us! I hope we will! Thank you! Yeah, maybe it's doesn't really matter, but I hope he won't find those emails. Anyway, just to explain this situation a bit more. I have made a new yahoo mail account and I will use it through my Windows Mobile device's ( Imate K-Jam) email client's. She will make a new whatever free email address and that's it really. I don't think he will ever find it unless if he had installed some spy software on her laptop and have a track of all of her activity. Bloody hell, I feel like James Bond now... I hope he doesn't! Well, we will see what happens and I'll let you know if we will planning our wedding! Everyone invited who replied!
Anyway, I have the solution! I won't send him anymore mails from home! Yep,that's it!
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Posted: 2006-08-10 00:07:17
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surely if it all going swimmingly he'll know later on anyway wont he?
*scratches head*
surely its better to be honest now before something happens that you cant reverse??
and yes i always take the moral high road...
honesty is the best policy is any situation. and its seldomn found in the people of today, stand up like a man and tell your mate that you have feelings for his ex. he'll take it one of 2 ways and then at least you will know..
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[ This Message was edited by: fatreg on 2006-08-09 23:18 ]
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Posted: 2006-08-10 00:13:16
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I think the operative word here is EX
If they arent together then surely there shouldnt be such an issue, unless of course there are other issues
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Posted: 2006-08-10 10:38:40
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Now that you mention it...
How come her Ex has access to her phone, emails, computer, etc...
I think there's something not right.
Maybe the Ex part is not REALLY Ex, maybe you're using the "Ex" word knowing about what will happen in the future...
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Posted: 2006-08-10 13:31:40
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Thanking you Krubach
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Posted: 2006-08-10 13:38:35
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Well, actualy what happened is, she was here in England for a while and she used to live in one of my flat. She is coming around for a couple of weeks every month or so. As far as I remember I was fancy her (on a good way!) even before we ever met. She said she felt the same as me for a long time. I was abroad for a while and she came to London in february. We have spoke on the phone a lot, and texted each other about business, but that's it, nothing more, but we always had that feeling about each other. Finaly we have met in april when she was here and I thought she is very cute and everything, but I have never thought anything more. Until, july when we went out with some friends and she ended up at my place for two days. Nothing happened at all, not even a single kiss. We were talking a lot and she said I might be the one for her and I have felt the same and now I know it. Anyway, her boyfriend is a real pice of work and she was trying to break up with him, but the guy just didn't want to take it. At the end of the day, he got so upset and he came to London for a weekend. Then she told him, she want to break up with him, because she had enough. Of course he couldn't take it. He wanted to take her home, but fortunately with no luck. He went and she stayed. Then we got closer to each other and something started. Then unfortunately she had to go back for a month or so to sort out her life there, cause she wants to come back for good. The trouble is, they where together for 3 years, they even used to live together and even now they living in the same flat till she's there. They have business and a loads of things together, but it's just not easy to sort a million things out with your ex after 3 years. They had a "big talk" about the break up and they agreed the best thing is if they just have a break. Well, actualy that's what he's think. Anyway, he told her if she ever come back never go back to her home, cause there will be trouble. He's an ...hole! So, what's happening is she's trying to sort everything out and they still in the same flat. Because he's so afraid someone in the background, he's checking her phone in every hour or so and her computer as well. She said she doesn't want anymore argument so if he want to check them, check them. That's why we have so much difficulties to contact each other. The other thing is if he'll find out what's going on he can open his big mouth and that could be very bad for her there. There is some things she doesn't want other people or her family to find out. So, that's it really and as you see it's just not easy to take and to know she want's to come back so badly, but she can't for a couple of weeks and we cannot even contact to each other properly. I just want her to be safe while she's still there, don't get hurt and don't be afraid of him all the bloody time.
So, that's the whole story so far.
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Posted: 2006-08-10 15:50:18
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Phew...
I just hope you can work that out.
Maybe it's better for you to stay at large for now (although i agree it's tough for you), and wait 'till she get's her things done.
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Posted: 2006-08-10 16:42:08
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Well love is blind - i wish you the best
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Posted: 2006-08-10 17:56:57
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naughty naughty girl..
getting involved with you when shes other wise engaged. not impressed..
don't know who to think less of.. her or her "ex"...
fatreg
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Posted: 2006-08-10 20:01:58
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That wasn't very nice! Wasn't nice at all!
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Posted: 2006-08-10 21:46:01
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