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it's really quite true what you said.
My girlfriend is indeed selfish (as it appears to me) but I made a promise that I would give up too easily in this relationship.
I used to leave my girlfriends as soon as there was a hint of trouble or commitment, so I'm here to stick it through until finally if we do break up, I can't look back at myself and be disappointed at the fact that I didn't try.
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Posted: 2006-01-23 15:30:54
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i know that feeling amnesia
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Posted: 2006-01-23 15:36:01
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im sorry to hear that mate... i think you should ask her to sit down, and ask her how you can do whatever youve done wrong, right... or it could be what happened to me (which is bad) they make little things into big things so that you dont wanna 'go out' with em anymore... but of course, ive never had a REAL relationship, just little crappy ones where they dont really care, so i have no experience in REAL relationships, i just got ditched the other day
but i really would like to help you out here dude...
non related, that piccy is so funny!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 2006-01-23 22:54:42
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This is a very personal thread...takes some guts to open these things up to the whole world...anyway i'll just say this...abstract stuff:
Don't try and figure girls out, just let them do what they do, it's pointless IMHO to try and figure them out and try and always be right because they are hardly ever reasonable or logical, they can all afford to be like that, but they do things every now and again that make you feel soo good and like you can do anything and it seems like they are perfect for those moments when they really shine... so you usually keep caring for them. A guy only has to mess up once and thats it, a girl can basically get away with doing more selfish things and they do, thats the generally way it goes.
All you can do is look at yourself and ask if you really like her deep down, or if your just lying to yourself, if she still makes you feel good (at least sometimes!) and you think she's worth it, then of course do WHATEVER it takes and at least try to sort things out when they go bad. Otherwise it is harder to say then do but you must force yourself to just let it go and learn from the experience.
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Posted: 2006-01-24 00:08:27
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On 2006-01-24 00:08:27, loyal2thegame wrote:
This is a very personal thread...takes some guts to open these things up to the whole world...anyway i'll just say this...abstract stuff:
Don't try and figure girls out, just let them do what they do, it's pointless IMHO to try and figure them out and try and always be right because they are hardly ever reasonable or logical, they can all afford to be like that, but they do things every now and again that make you feel soo good and like you can do anything and it seems like they are perfect for those moments when they really shine... so you usually keep caring for them. A guy only has to mess up once and thats it, a girl can basically get away with doing more selfish things and they do, thats the generally way it goes.
All you can do is look at yourself and ask if you really like her deep down, or if your just lying to yourself, if she still makes you feel good (at least sometimes!) and you think she's worth it, then of course do WHATEVER it takes and at least try to sort things out when they go bad. Otherwise it is harder to say then do but you must force yourself to just let it go and learn from the experience.
very well said indeed! and i totally agree with you mate, ive been in a retaltionship for over 2 years now and all the points you have made make total sense to me.
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Posted: 2006-01-25 10:23:57
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Thanks appreciate that!
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Posted: 2006-01-26 20:23:54
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tried posting this on wap, but my phone pooped out on me.. so here we go.
hate to be the devils advocate here, but... although you can solve the problem at hand, hopefully, there seems to be an underlying issue that needs to be addressed. it sounds like your girlfriend doesn't think you listen to her, or appreciate the things she says. perhaps you can find a way to prove to her that you do, and you honestly did not know what she meant. it can be difficult to convince someone of something they obviously see differently from you. i wish you the best of luck. perhaps you should show her this thread, and how much effort you put into solving the issue, without even knowing exactly what she meant.
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Posted: 2006-01-26 21:21:27
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