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On 2004-10-25 15:51:36, JohnN4 wrote:
Jojo, don't!! I save you man! Life goes on, the chick just played you, no biggy.
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@Johnn4 - Yeah . . . thanks too! So with @meth's . . . there are just things that money can't buy, for everything else, there's this life-size mannequin doll
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Posted: 2004-10-25 16:00:56
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@ Ayush, I think if you need to generate an emotional field and make another care for you that will work 90% of the time. It so simple, if you wish to be loved, love. Be yourself and show your affection and passion.. Then follow the one-two-three rule. First, reach out; second, notice the reaction; third, move forward, stop, or back up depending on the signals you receive!
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Posted: 2004-10-25 16:24:04
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On 2004-10-25 16:24:04, bluechips wrote:
@ Ayush, I think if you need to generate an emotional field and make another care for you that will work 90% of the time. It so simple, if you wish to be loved, love. Be yourself and show your affection and passion.. Then follow the one-two-three rule. First, reach out; second, notice the reaction; third, move forward, stop, or back up depending on the signals you receive!
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@bluechips - Glad to have you here at Esato dude! Nice username mate, 'gamble' is the name of the game in - 'LOVE' ! Though I have some mixed reactions/feelings with your '1-2-3' rule pal, what if the girl is 'deceiving' you, just like what happened to me here, or worst if you are dealing with professional sluts? That knows the ins-and outs of playing with the hearts and ripping off your wallet? Kinda difficult to decipher at times as well I guess . . .
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Posted: 2004-10-25 16:41:13
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@ JN, its my pleasure to be a part of esato. And you're right sometimes we gamble things around us and I think there are always a sunny side about it. And it's a kind of unremarkable strength and courage to face something we aint certain. Besides love has no rule and can move everything! I'm bluechips, meaning blue; loner and chips; to me sensitive. What a coincidence with the topic, nyway thanks for the compliment! :-)
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Posted: 2004-10-25 17:09:49
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Superb piece of advice from bluechips there, welcome aboard!
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Posted: 2004-10-25 17:33:00
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Thanks @ methylated_spirit. Me either was never an exception, I got my version of a love trap. Sometimes its better not to say hello to avoid the pain of goodbye. But who we are to control our emotions and feelings. I was ruined by jealousy, my partner grabbed the oppurtunity to dumped me.. Yes it hurts, and it's a one of a kind encounters and with much regrets... I've moved on.
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Posted: 2004-10-25 18:03:09
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@ayush
@jojo:
Hear that fellas? He's moved on
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Posted: 2004-10-26 01:43:17
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... from the words of a well-known Esato philospher/psycho-analyst and part-time comedian "Spread your wings!".
If you ask me, it's actually a very realistic advise. Get to know more people, join sports, associations, civic/religious groups anything that can expose you to as many acquaintances as possible. Sincerely listen to people, learn to have spontaneous, casual relationships with as many of the opposite sex as possible (without thinking about marriage right away) and don't be choosy as to physical attributes. Be honest but tactful. Hug your 55-year-old cook if she makes your favorite dish!
IMO, once you have established yourself as a person whom anybody can be comfortable with, I guarantee, once you find the right person, getting to the next level is like a walk in the park.
Don't try too hard, be natural, and most important - Respect women.
That's just my opinion.
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Posted: 2004-10-26 05:16:34
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come on, people! its not that hard!
ya know, most people dont have THAT hard of a time finding girls!
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Posted: 2004-10-26 05:22:00
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Blackspot... Well said. I think this love at first sight theory is a myth propogated by the movies. True, some of us find it harder to get girls. But that shouldn't stop us from trying! Just that the best of relationships are built over time, lots of time!
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Posted: 2004-10-26 06:10:40
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