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nice post miss c.
dont sound like it is working atm but the whole baby thing could re unite you. when i read you were 16 though i changed my mind and now think you shouldnt have that baby. just wouldnt work for several reasons


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Posted: 2006-03-31 19:39:47
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why do you want to ditch her all of a sudden?
because you guys fight a little?
you know you really do care about her. I know you do, you know you do. Its just something little you guys have to work through. If she is preg. Then if she wants to have the baby, let her, and be with her, comfort her, and do that best you guys can, and hopefully your and her parents can help a little.
its really a tough decision on what to do, but wait and see if she really is preg. but man, you really dont want to leave her, she is scared, so she is acting a little weird, but it will pass...
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Posted: 2006-03-31 20:01:37
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Well am back but rather sad tbh. The test showed negative so i thought great until she burst out cryin she went str8 4 the vodka and started killing it. Got out her face and wouldnt stop crying and goin on with herself.
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Posted: 2006-04-01 00:58:00
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so she wanted the baby?
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Posted: 2006-04-01 01:07:22
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She also was saying how she loved me and a family would make us complete and how shes going to try harder to make us work. Shes flat out next to me.
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Posted: 2006-04-01 01:08:00
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hey mal,

sounds like a bit of a tough time for you:(

i know it can be real hard to deal with things like this, but like a lot of earlier posters, no matter what she has said and is like tonight, i think you both need to have a sit down when you are bpoth sober and have a serious chat about how you both feel for each other and where you think the relationship is going.

good luck mate, and if you want to chat you can always PM me(ive changed my number by the way)
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Posted: 2006-04-01 01:14:01
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Hi matt mate. Im sober mate. Shes out of it tho. She was so upset. She said how when she goes home she'l get fed up of her family borrowing her money etc. Shes really depressed. (was prescribed em but never taken em)
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Posted: 2006-04-01 01:20:00
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best to let her sleep it off tonight, and maybe try and have a chat tomorrow(after she has got over the hangover, which will make her moody ) i think it is important that you both try to come to some sort of agreement about where you see things going from here. I understand she may have a tough time at home but its no excuse to take it out on you, see if you can help her in that aspect at all??

whatever happens, keep to your true feelings and dont feel pressured into anything as that often leads to worse situations in the long run
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Posted: 2006-04-01 01:42:08
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I think she has some serious issues to sort out before she brings a baby into the world.

There is obviously a deep routed problem and maybe she feels that having a baby would solve them, it WON'T.

She needs to get help with this depression ASAP, you also need to have a good chat with her and make your feelings clear.

You 16 do you seriously want to be a father at that age and take on her problems as well.

Another thing i would do is go and get her checked at the doctor, as there is such a thing as a false negative.
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Posted: 2006-04-01 09:52:44
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Glad to hear it came back negitive,
@miss C, i dont see the point in going to the doc's because it is ovbious that she was having him on all the time.

I think you need a break from her. If any woman put me thought this i would not look at her in the same light.
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Posted: 2006-04-01 10:42:56
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