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When you have been with someone for three years, and that person is in another country for a while. There is also the chance that you wont see that person for a year. Do you think it is normal for that person to be too busy for you?
Busy from morning til night?
Too busy to send a message saying hello?
Too busy to send an instant message even though their status is away on messenger?
Too busy for any of these things? But not too busy to go out with some friends?
How should a guy feel?
Oh and of course talking about it isn't an option because I can't even get in contact...
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Posted: 2005-08-21 20:12:29
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Just like what a girl would feel like: dumped!
Try to stay calm though. There might be a perfectly reasonable reason for it; Her phone has been nicked, the intenet connection has collapsed, the landline bill has not been payed and cut off...
Send her a hand written letter.
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Posted: 2005-08-21 20:18:43
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Hmmm!!!
How long has she been away?
Not sure what to say here, depends how long you have been apart.
Has she not rung you in awhile, written, instant messaged, emailed?
Have you rung her and she has ignored you?
It must be tought being apart for so long
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Posted: 2005-08-21 20:24:45
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Try to make alternate contact with her, failing which let things be... for now. Then try again tomorrow... And then you wait. As Tranquil says, there could be a perfectly reasonable explanation, so don't become sarcastic in your messages to her. Patience is what's called for now...
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Posted: 2005-08-21 20:25:32
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Can understand feeling hurt by that m8 .. but could be any number of reasons from bad mobile networks / timezones to shcedules .. be patient and keep trying .. its never easy am half a world away from my gf at moment .. takes alot of faith patience and love to hold together at such times .. try sending her a card , letter , flowers etc in the meantime and hang in there .. things will work for you .. good luck and hang in there m8 ... luckily this is my final trip abroad after years of travelling the world .. . a year seems long but does go fast ..
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Posted: 2005-08-21 22:20:00
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i'll explain, she's my fiance.
she's sent me an email saying that i call too much.. but she's the one who asked me to call, and she's also said if she doesn't answer she wants me to keep trying because she might have been busy at that time.
she's been away for two months now, and it seems to me that she's just obviously nuts...
a normal person would think that the relationship is over, but to her, she might think that nothing out of the ordinary is going on.
`i've mentioned this, shes told me that she knows that shes not being very nice and that she just needs time to finish what shes doing....
i just dont understand. i'm going to just wait it out.
when she comes back at the middle of September i'm going to see whats going on.
just wanted to make sure that I wasn't being paranoid here. She is not acting normal.
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Posted: 2005-08-22 04:42:48
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@amnesia
If she is returning in September I would suggest you wait until then to have a proper talk to her about your relationship. Be frank with her and ask her what was going on exactly and ask her to be equally frank with you.
You must be prepared for the possibility that your relationship may have changed. On the other hand you should also remember to be hopeful that this is really nothing, but a storm in a teacup. It may be that being away apart for so long and a heavy workload or a busy schedule may have been causing problems for both of you.
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Posted: 2005-08-22 05:02:47
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An entire truckload of patience is required from you, as well as a non-confrontational attitude. (she sounds a tad eccentric... Or very very busy!) Try to relax, and remember that absence, as well as abstinence, does make the heart grow fonder.
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Posted: 2005-08-22 06:37:43
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she's sent me an email saying that i call too much..
Read this line till you blue in the face!!!! Just give her what she wants and DONT CALL!!!
ps: go mess around while shes not around, have some fun, get your mind of her... (dont over do it!
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Posted: 2005-08-22 08:26:47
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On 2005-08-22 08:26:47, 786KBR wrote:
she's sent me an email saying that i call too much..
Read this line till you blue in the face!!!! Just give her what she wants and DONT CALL!!!
ps: go mess around while shes not around, have some fun, get your mind of her... (dont over do it!
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flirting isnt cheating
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Posted: 2005-08-22 09:18:44
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