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I want as many people to sign this petition as poosible!!
Topic: Judging a member at first meeting
I, myself, am guilty of this. But i am trying to overcome this, as now i've realised how pathetic i was and how irritating it is for other members.
I have a load of Pm's from masseur which i can now laugh at, as he was basiclly saying stop arguing with everything i say...if only i could read the outbox...
But this is a petition for people (mainly newbies or non-regulars) to please not judge a member untill u properly know they're personality. It is so irritating for other members and the posts basiclly just waste space on esato which could be put towards good, respectful posts and topics and debates.
I think this may be what really puts people off esato. Hence all those 'what has happened to esato?' threads.
I also want to appoligise to masseur for being a complete pain(it was a while back but regardless).
So could any members that are against judging members by there first impressions/posts please just stick a post in this thread
Hopefully some of the people who are judging people, like i did, will come around like i did eventually and stop?
Well,
that's my POV anyway...
Ben
Oops almost forgot 2 sign:
jenbones
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:16:34
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here here... thanks for not taking anything personally
just trying to do my little bit to make Esato THE place to visit, as should we all as it has a lot to offer
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:20:39
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@jenbones - I WAS in your shoes too . . . . back then! But my size is - 11 !
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:25:23
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maybe I should reply here
I think everyone has seen a few of my ''interesting'' posts where I seem to be judging people or saying a few things out of line, most of you guys know who you were (I say were because I never hold a grudge and nothing lasts truely) so
sorry if anyone got the wrong end of the stick by a few of my posts.
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:26:17
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Oooops, looks like I've posted in the wrong thread ! I now RETRACT what I just posted (first) ! I thought it was the OTHER way around . . .
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:28:15
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On 2005-11-27 15:26:17, defensive wrote:
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I never hold a grudge and nothing lasts truely
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thats pretty much what I say to people who I have given short bans to. People make mistakes but unless they repeatedly make the mistake after being "educated" then, as this thread by jenbones shows, we can all get along... and thats the great thing about Esato members
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:29:39
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On 2005-11-27 15:29:39, masseur wrote:
... and thats the great thing about Esato members
. . . . and HOW to MODERATE the members !
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:32:56
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Well. I had done a blunder and got the toughest lesson. It took a long time to prove myself a bit. Anyway i paid for my act. Yes. Better not to hurry up on judgement.
This message was posted from a WAP device
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Posted: 2005-11-27 15:46:04
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Looks like i'm not the only one
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Posted: 2005-11-27 16:06:05
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@Pradhika, I dunno what your story is but I do remember making this comment about your posts
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On 2005-01-17 15:46:42, masseur wrote:
am I the only one who thinks that Pradhika's posts, with the utmost respect for the fact that English isn't his native language, sound like fortune cookies?
though your posting style seems to have a changed a little since then
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Posted: 2005-11-27 16:10:42
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