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heyy. okay me and my girlfriend were dating for 13 months...broke up for 4...and saw other people. now were back together and we don't know how to count it. do we start back at 1 month???? or go on to the 14th month? we talked and didn't know what to do, so im asking you all so, what do you all think?? ask questions if you want. thanksssss

p.s. i know most of u hate these kind of threads... so...sorrrrry...just need opinions

[ This Message was edited by: EastCoastStar on 2005-11-29 03:25 ]
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Posted: 2005-11-29 04:23:25
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well you'd be starting fresh, if you just continued, you'd be contuing where the problem and bad feelings left off.

On a plus side! WATCH the MARIO VIDEO
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Posted: 2005-11-29 04:28:53
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true. thxx for ur thoughts.

p.s. check ur mario thread
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Posted: 2005-11-29 04:32:37
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what should I see?
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Posted: 2005-11-29 04:33:51
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four months is probably too long to count it as one stint anyway, especially since you both saw other people. you could always say "we've been together on and off for x months/years".
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Posted: 2005-11-29 06:36:44
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U both had a 4 month tea break. There will prolly be more tea breaks too,so enjoy ur tea,i bet ur gf did/will ;-) This message was posted from a WAP device
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Posted: 2005-11-29 07:47:38
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Well, all i can say is, i am here to shepherd the troubled flock. Esato Lonely Hearts will have the answers to your questions.

http://www.esato.com/board/viewtopic.php?topic=70555
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Posted: 2005-11-29 11:30:30
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I'd say it's the 14th month, or do as Gelfen says "on and off for x months/years".
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Posted: 2005-11-29 11:47:27
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I'm in the same situation with my lady, we've broken up a couple of times, the longest being 3 months out of the 3 years I've known her.

We both still say we've been together for 3 years though.
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Posted: 2005-11-29 11:59:46
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agree. After all, it's just a break really. If you are at work all day you tell everyone it's an 8 hour day, even if you don't get paid for lunch and it's only a seven hour workday.

Unless the time you are on a break for is equal to the previous total time you have had together, then you count it inclusive. If the total time you have been together is less than the length of the break period when you get back together, then you would say "together on and off". If there is more than a year between this time and the last time you were together, then you start counting from scratch.

Just MHO
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Posted: 2005-11-29 12:16:58
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