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I have been friends with this girl for a long time now but i never had the courage to tell her how i felt about her, she recently told me she is getting married, so i am asking you whether i should tell her or just keep quiet.
My biggest wish for her is to be happy, however i feel miserable that i never told her how i truely felt about her.
So what should i do?
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:18:19
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Tell her an c wat happens u never know wen it comes to girls. Good luck
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:20:53
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Tell her, see if she is thinking the same way. You could always say it was a joke if things go horribly wrong....
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:21:08
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On 2006-03-23 22:21:08, Coxy wrote:
Tell her, see if she is thinking the same way. You could always say it was a joke if things go horribly wrong....
The joke thing never works... well ive never seen it work before at least. Depends on a lot of things really... would you lose her as a friend if you told her what ur thinkin and she didnt feel the same way?
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:26:21
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It can work with a lot of hard work i spose. It also depends if she really really likes the other guy...
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:27:33
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Reminds me of an indian movie i once watched.
It must be very painful to see her getting married, if you are very close to her try telling her and see what happens. After she's married its too late.
All the best.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:29:44
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If I were you i'd tell her... it's obvious you don't want her as a friend, otherwise you wouldn't be asking yourself this question. Tell her how you feel... you never know.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:30:45
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My advice would be to tell her,because if you don't its something you will regret for the rest of your life.
At least by showing your true feelings towards her,regardless of her response,you won't feel later that you should have her told her.
And you never know she might even change her mind,its a risk worth taking if you really do love her.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:32:43
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A very bad position dude. You would be doing injustice to yourself by not telling her, thats gonna bug you for a long time. If you say and she says no, and have a big fight, its gonna make matters worse for you as well as her. Girls/women usually get over this sorta thing pretty fast and in the end you would live a very miserable and sh!tty days. If as you had said wanna see her just happy even if it is with someone else, is one heck of a cock and bull story that you see in movies.
Control your emotion, dude and live up the life, and soon you will forget about the infactuation and would see her as a really good friend for a long time..
If you really really wanna say it, go ahead.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:37:01
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Tricky one this. Do you risk losing or falling out with a good friend or risk all in the hope that she reciprocates your feelings?
It may be worth having a good talk with her, try to guage her feelings towards you, whether it's just good friends or if she's harbouring other feelings towards you. If you think she does, then go for it. If not, then hold back.
It depends I guess as well as if you still want her as a friend - sometimes being told that she just wants to be friends is as bad as being told she can't stand you!
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:37:14
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