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Okay, first off, heres my story. Last sunday, me, my girlfriend, and 2 of her cousins were riding a Rhino. (a Rhino is a mix between a golf cart and a 4 wheeler. like a golf cart that is gas powered, with big wheels, and strong. for offroad stuff.) Anyway, one of her cousins was driving, and she was going about 35-40 MPH, and she turned a corner and flipped it. my girlfriend and the girl driving got out without a problem, but it rolled on top of me and my girlfriends other cousin (a guy). we had to go go the hospital, he had a broken leg, and my elbow got dislocated, tore a muscle and a tendon, my back hurts, and i have a huge cut/burn on my back from it. I didnt go to the hospital, the paramedics came out and took the guy with the broken leg, and just fixed me there. It hurts to walk, ive had a headache since it happened, and im still hurting. My girlfriends mom has always givin me a hard time. we have been together for 2 years. Now today, shes telling my girlfriend that the only way she can see me, is if i cut her grass (which wll take me about 2 hours), and i cant see her until i cut her grass. I have been at work all day, and she wants me to go straight to their house and cut the grass. She (my girlfriends mom) doesnt have a job, shes at home all day. Another thing, I am buying a Jeep wrangler, and her mom has the nerve to tell me that i cant buy one. and if i do, my girlfriend will never be able to ride in it with me. I have wanted one since i was little, now i dont know what to do.

what the hell should i do about my girlfriends mom? thanks!
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:01:06
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can i just ask how old you are? under 18?
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:03:38
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seems to me you can't do anything about that fact.

She seems to be giving you alternatives that she knows will keep you away from her.

Either say F off and try to sneakily go out with her.
Sit down with her mom and ask her calmly why she's doing this.
Forget the girl (a bit harsh)
or you'll have to suck it up.
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:05:46
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He must be atleast 21, legal driving age in the states.
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:10:42
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i thought you only have to be 16 to drive in america??
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:13:20
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simple... put her up for adoption

cor, she would really annoy me...
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:16:23
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Well I thought you had to be 21, but whatever. I would sit down with her and try to calmly sort things out. Usually works out best, plus you end up doing it if things get heated to start with, lol.
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:17:58
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well im 20, and she is almost 18, but when she is 18 (legal age), she cant just leave, becuase she needs to live there until me and her both get stable and on our feet, ya know?

btw, legal driving age is 16, if you have had a permit for 1 year (from 15-16), which means you have to drive with an adult for 1 year, not alone. then you can get your licence to drive.

anyway, im in pain, and it slike i cant even show it. If i sit down and talk to her, things will get weird probobly, ya know? I worked with her dad, and both brothers for a long time, then everyone kinda quit the work, it was way to hot outside to work outside. so im good with her family and all.
It just leaves me in a weird place, becuase we have already been together so long, ya know? I love her. I really do. But i dont even know what to do. I get so frustrated with her (her mom, not my girlfriend)

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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:27:26
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Sounds like a tricky situation to me. Could yo not talk to her dad or bros or summat? Maybe they could have a word with "her". lol
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:29:27
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thats a good idea. i might talk to one of her brothers. (one of them i dont get along with that great, but the other one i talk to alot), so i may talk to him.
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Posted: 2006-03-29 22:33:17
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