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hey guys just wanted have some advice on a personal problem here....the prob is tht my bestfriend is in luv with me...she told me bt i m confused cuz i like another girl whome i haven't told tht i like her!...she attracts me physically as oppose to my frnd whose n average lukin girl! bt i do have a soft corner fr me frnd too cuz v r bestest ov frnds....i'll b frank here cuz i'm confused cuz at ths age (23) physical attraction is more rather thn understanding wht luv actually is!!....need some advices nw
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Posted: 2008-01-21 11:16:55
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get stuck in....... youre young, enjoy youreself
its better to regret things youve done, than things you didnt do......
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Posted: 2008-01-21 11:37:59
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Good advice for us all leeboy.
Go after the girl you fancy.
'Fortune favours the Brave', as another saying goes.
Add to that, 'Faint heart never won fair maiden'.
Ok, I'll shut it now.

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Posted: 2008-01-21 11:46:31
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Depends how good friend she is to you. You can forget about the friendship if you go for it.
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Posted: 2008-01-21 12:11:31
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dude shes my bestfriend!...i haven't told her tht i luv her so its nt final...n i recently was told by another friend ov mine tht she even rejected a guy just bcuz ov me!....n later i confirmed it! n i myself have a soft corner fr her in my heart!....m i being a fool leaving her bcuz ov her average luks fr a girl whome i dunnno if she likes me or nt!!!
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Posted: 2008-01-21 12:12:26
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Do as you think or feel. Later on you will regret if you didn't. I just said, if you go for your friend than you can forget about the friendship. Which one is more important is up to you. Then again, Somebody once said to me "It is better to have a canarian in your hand than a pigeon on the tree branch"
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Posted: 2008-01-21 12:33:08
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Normally I would start saying things like 'Looks aren't everything' etc. but in your case, I think you must go with your heart. If you don't find your friend attractive then it would be cruel and pointless to start something with her because it probably won't last.
As kenobi says, it would be a sure fire way to destroy the friendship if you're not fully committed to her.
Having said that though, Crosby, Stills, Nash and young once sang "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"...
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Posted: 2008-01-21 12:39:31
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@Cycovision, wow. Thoughtful one..
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Posted: 2008-01-21 12:52:03
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@zuhib, This world is full with pretty girls

as you say that you are not sure just because the girl you think you are in love wid is pretty then your best friend? What if in future you met a more beautiful girl then you recent love , would you still stick to your girl or......
If still you would like to be wid your girl then you are in love man otherwise its just a beauty attraction. You just need to be honest with your feelings and thats it.

Besides all i know is love has no care for looks, like a mother loves her kid regardless beauty/looks.
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Posted: 2008-01-21 13:35:00
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ur quiet rite....but call me crazy cuz v ppl always wait fr a perfect 1...i dunno if i m being a fool to leave someone who luvs me..cuz mayb i wont find nyone who will luv me truly as she does!....n also i dunno if the girl i like wud b able to give me the same luv as she gives it to me!
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Posted: 2008-01-21 13:59:50
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