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I'm 21, and I just lost my best friend of 8 years because of something I did. I hurt him emotionally and i betrayed his trust and i got what i completely deserved, except that i'm still living.
we talked on the phone everyday for 2+ hours for the last 8 years. we shared everything, every secret, every inch of our lives.
what i do? i betray him. he will not even look at my face anymore. i just dont know what to do, i didnt see this coming at all. i cant cry because the emotion is just so overwhelming that my body cant decide what to do. i just want an undo button on my life or i just want an 'end' button on my life.
i cant mention what i did because of utter shame.

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Posted: 2009-04-10 08:37:55
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I'm sorry to hear that QVGA, best thing to do is to never give up on him. Just keep on trying and show him your deepest sincerity, even if it takes for ever. Hopefully he'll eventually come around... Goodluck
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Posted: 2009-04-10 09:16:29
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The best thing you can do right now is to leave him alone for a while,let the dust settle so to speak time is a great healer hopefully he will miss you just as much as you do him but you will need to prove yourself and apologize and beg for his forgiveness.


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Posted: 2009-04-10 09:57:16
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Suicide!! Dont be stupid, things are never that bad.

Like suggested, give him a little time, and then try to sort things out with him again.
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Posted: 2009-04-10 10:08:13
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hey qvga. Relax m8. Give him time pal. Mistakes are made, and sometimes relationships are strained...you two will be fine. An 8 year close friendship obviously a strong one. )
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Posted: 2009-04-10 20:12:00
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Qvga, who are you? Male or female? What did you do with him? If you dont want to reveal, pm me.

Yeah, like other guys said about giving time and settleing things on its own, i would say, ok but dont give more time so that things get settle down without you. Then it would be so hard for both of you to return. I have lost one friend in that. I miss her today also.
Dont act stupid. KHUDKHUSI KARNEWALE KO TO KHUDA BHI MAAF NAHI KARTA- Even god doesnot forgive who commits suicide. Be brave. This is not the end of life. You need to get through many experiences of life.
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Posted: 2009-04-10 21:15:59
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Suicide is weak, most people are dicks, deal with it m8.

Look after number 1 is what I say.
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Posted: 2009-04-10 22:59:39
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Dude don't stress, as long as you have learnt from the experience your a better person, and all can hope is your friend understands that everyone makes mistakes
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Posted: 2009-04-11 03:16:14
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killing urself makes another problem to ur friend and also to ur family be brave, its a challenge between u and ur friend to test ur sincerity, easy pal,try to look someone to talk for to lessen that heartache, and speak it out
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Posted: 2009-04-11 04:37:51
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I recently broke up with my best friend and my girl who I have loved for 14 years and at times like these suicidal thoughts do come to your mind. It did come to me as well albeit for a split second.
But then life is much much more than this. Its very simple to take a decision like this and end it. We should value the preciousness of life.

Just be truthful and sincere and apologize. If you did wrong, accept it. I find no shame in doing that. Although accepting and reconciliation is entirely dependent on the other person. If he/she has been hurt really badly, it might take time-- a long time. Or it might never happen at all. But we got to live with it. No two ways anbout it. Life is tough.
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Posted: 2009-04-11 15:06:23
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