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Need your help again that girl i have been posting about the one i have liked for 5 months and that i fell in love with. I have just read on her facebook messages off another guy saying that they are proper going out. Well obviously my heart sank. My dad saw me in the front room and he didn't know anything was wrong but he knew i was putting a brave face on. Truth is i am in love with this girl. We see each other all the time at uni and she is so hot. I love her smile and laugh. She will surely keep her distance from me when we go back. But i dont want to lose her as a mate. Any advice? Also should i facebook chat her for the two weeks we are off uni or just leave her for a while.
[ This Message was edited by: brownie1989 on 2009-04-15 23:36 ]
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Posted: 2009-04-16 00:34:25
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Leave her to it...Women love attention...Start ignoring her for a bit and she'll come back and start chatting to you herself!
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Posted: 2009-04-16 00:59:29
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I say leave her until you meet face to face. If you see her, keep it short and sweet so no long or deep conversations. You have to look happy even though she is with someone else. You have to show that she isn't that hot and that you're over her by giving the impression that things are great without her. Whatever she feels, she will still wonder why you are so happy and cool.
Also, ask her what her boyfriend is like and be a bit cheeky i.e. if she has had her hair done say, "Wow, your hair looks amazing but I guess your boyfriend is always saying that". Get the tone right, smile and laugh. She'll say, "Aww, thank you" etc. Now she has you to compare with her boyfriend and the fact that you (the cool, calm stud that is happy without her) is saying this, she will always be happy to see you.
I am single and work with many women. I'm not looking for a girlfriend at all but a few well timed complements go a long way. Women will remember the nice things you say and will appreciate you if make them smile and feel good about themselves. I never go so far that they think that I want them because it would be cruel to lead them on so I say that I'm religious etc.
Stick to the little complements, it'll make you seem mysterious and she will come looking for you just for your sweet talk. Keep your ear to the ground as well i.e. if you year that she is doing extra time at the gym tell her that you think she has lost weight. Notice the little things. Whatever happens and regardless of you winning her back or not, you will definately be noticed and hopefully you will definately pull a lot of girls, possibly even better than her.
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Posted: 2009-04-16 02:02:57
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show her that your the man more than anyone else for her.
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Posted: 2009-04-16 02:23:12
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Thanks all. I am just praying she is ok with me being her mate for now. Guess i gotta try put my mind off it
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Posted: 2009-04-16 08:31:50
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On 2009-04-16 00:59:29, |I.H| wrote:
Leave her to it...Women love attention...Start ignoring her for a bit and she'll come back and start chatting to you herself!
mate you are a genious. i was on msn i i didnt start a convo hith her for the first time ever. then like 10 minutes later she started one. i thank you so much man
[ This Message was edited by: brownie1989 on 2009-04-16 10:11 ]
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Posted: 2009-04-16 11:06:56
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LOL what a p*ssy. WTF is wrong with you. Your getting "P*ssy Whipped"
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Posted: 2009-04-16 12:04:39
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am wit brownlad on this... u av bigger issues if u need to come onto a mobile phone forum to ask for advice about girls... in fact comin on the net and asking for advice about girls is funny in general.
just go out an enjoy ur life... the right girl will turn up!
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Posted: 2009-04-16 13:29:01
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Simply leave her
This message was posted from a SGH-X660
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Posted: 2009-04-16 13:33:54
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On 2009-04-16 13:33:54, tetouan wrote:
Simply leave her
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He's not with her. Thats the problem.
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Posted: 2009-04-16 13:37:14
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