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Not been here at Esato for over a week now, had the worst week of my life. Friday 7th June approximately 12pm I receive a SMS from my wife saying she'e left me. I'm like, "what? you're joking" thinking her hormones a bit unsettled still after having our baby (what I thought was our baby) 2 months before that. She didn't answer my calls and would only talk via SMS! She went on to tell me she had been seeing another man for 2 years!!! We would have been married 5 years on the 26th July this year and had been together for 10 years all together. Then the big bombshell..... the baby is her new lovers!!!! I had suspicions, started to think he never looked like me, and ask alot of questions, guess she couldn't live the lie any longer. Not 100% sure who this guy is, but from what I can make out he has plenty of money, what a week. I thought I'd share that with my friends here... The main point is, you think after 10 years you know someone, but boy was I wrong.
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Posted: 2002-06-15 22:56:00
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Really sorry to hear that mate! Sounds like you're better of rid though!
Ed
[ This Message was edited by: edwardm on 2002-06-15 22:00 ]
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Posted: 2002-06-15 22:59:00
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Sorry to hear that. Your wife surly sounds like a creep to me. And I guess you are even more angry with the sneaky guy.
-Jas
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Posted: 2002-06-15 22:59:00
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Thanks guys, I'm starting to come to terms with it now, but it still isn't sinking in completely yet. She would have received a letter from my solicitor today, so at least the quicker the divorce is settled the better. Oh, forgot to mention, she took my bloody car!
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:02:00
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Gosh! Am sorry to hear that but who knows maybe it's for ur best really! Never regret anything. I bet she doesn't deserve u. Anyway money doesn't buy happiness. Good luck anyway.
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:07:00
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shit man, sorry to hear that. Suppose you can never get to know someone fully. Remember we @ esato will always be here for you
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:12:00
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Thanks cadcad, yeah I'm glad I found out before the child was alot older, guess it isn't as bad when I only knew him a short time. She was bad though, let me go through the whole pregnancy with her, listening to him in her belly, feeling him kick. I was with her through the labour and birth. I held him first, he has my name on his birth certificate and I'm on it as his father. That cant be changed so she hasn't been fair on her son either. I don't even hate her, wish I could. She turned 25 2 days after she left, the guy she is with is 37, is married and has a 13 year old son, they've hurt alot of people. Still, I'll get my payback one day. Not yet, will bide my time, but when everything is settled for the divorce, something will have to be done. It can't go unpunished.
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:12:00
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Cheers mixin, you're definately right, even though I thought I knew her so well, I didn't totally. Will take me a long time to trust another woman again.
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:15:00
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Here is what you do back: Hi you want some chocolate and hold some chocolate up to her. Littel does she know that she have dog poo in her mouth. Then you say: NOW YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL!!!!!
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:20:00
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@JohnM:
Actually, the real loser is your wife. Think about it --- that other slimy guy is married and probably wont leave his wife for yours. And she will be stuck with a kid to whom she will have to explain everything one day. Of course it will take forever to get past this for you, but when you do, you don't need to blame yourself. She will.
-Jas
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Posted: 2002-06-15 23:20:00
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