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Shes going to tell you that she loves you too but as a friend or if you are lucky shes going to tell you that maybe if you had said her earlier things could be different.

Shes not going to cancel her wedding or anything you can trust me.

Sorry to tell you this but is too late, do not delay things so much next time.

My advice: tell her or you are going to feel bad anyway
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[ This Message was edited by: rrojas260 on 2006-03-23 21:41 ]
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:37:40
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Tell her man, you don't want to walk away, letting her go and thinking "Why didn't I just..." If you do everything you can, you'll have no regrets.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:40:49
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let her go... if u are good friends, it should stay as it is. a friend is always there, who knows how it will turn out if u get in any deeper relationship. my best friend is a girl, on some way she would be the perfect one for me, but we are friends and somewhere deep inside in my soull i feel a bit more for here as for a "normal" friend, but thats it. i like that hidden feeling in me, she knows about it aswell.

ps: buy the movie "casablanca" ( one of my favourites ) and give her as a gift. she ll understand, why u did it. if not, she never felt the same for u, what u to her.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:42:43
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On 2006-03-23 22:40:49, kk.226 wrote:
Tell her man, you don't want to walk away, letting her go and thinking "Why didn't I just..." If you do everything you can, you'll have no regrets.



100% agree, life is way to short and you never know what may happen! I say go for it mate, you will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't

Best of luck!


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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:43:29
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you're all wrong I'm afraid.

The answer is that you say nothing and you be happy for the decision she has taken.

The reason is that if she felt something for you, you would know it by know. Since you have been friends for a long time there would have been some situation, even if in jest, that would have let the cat out of the bag or given the game away somehow

Also she is most unlikely to be marrying someone because she didn't get you.

Anything else is selfish on your part and you are most likely going to get hurt IMHO
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:45:38
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On 2006-03-23 22:40:49, kk.226 wrote:
Tell her man, you don't want to walk away, letting her go and thinking "Why didn't I just..." If you do everything you can, you'll have no regrets.



Then worst feeling ever will hit you someone else taking the lady away from you. The repercussion would be horrific. The felling of rejection.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:45:49
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No no no no!

Tell her how you feel, yes there is a chance of her rejecting you, but she may feel the same way. If she doesn't then yes you will be gutted but time is a healer and it will get better. If she goes ahead and get married then so be it.

Least you have tried. At the end of the day it is up to you but i think you have already made the decision on what to do.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:49:04
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might be she knows that u feel more for her. notice: women handle and manage things after sense, so imo she knos whats up in u at the moment. but its her life, her decision. u dont gonna loose her, she ll be laways there, if it is.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:54:25
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On 2006-03-23 22:45:49, govigov wrote:
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On 2006-03-23 22:40:49, kk.226 wrote:
Tell her man, you don't want to walk away, letting her go and thinking "Why didn't I just..." If you do everything you can, you'll have no regrets.



Then worst feeling ever will hit you someone else taking the lady away from you. The repercussion would be horrific. The felling of rejection.



Not at all sonny. If she doesn't feel the same way then it simply isn't meant to be. IF it doesn't work out, then of course he'll feel down for a bit, but if he doesn't try he'll never find out.

I was good friends with my girlfriend before we were togather... For some reason I didn't think that we'd end up togather, but i'm glad she made the choice to tell me how she felt. Now i'm in love with her... and she is with me... point being... I didn't see what was right infront of my eyes, sometimes we all need a little help in seeing these things.
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Posted: 2006-03-23 22:56:25
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i think that you can't hide the way you feel the whole of your life, it'll just eat you up inside... despite this, you want her to be happy, so think, if you did tell her, would you possibly break that happiness, or more importantly for you, her friendship... i think that its good to let her know and all, but you need to also take into mind of the consequences of that action, would it make things bad between you and her and/or would it spoil what she is soon to have. but then, if you know her well, perhaps you know that she is not the sort of person to get angry at you, maybe she will sympathise for the way you feel and let you down gently, at least now its off your chest, or do you think that by telling her, there might be something possible between you two... if you've read that chunk, well done, think about that. good luck for whatever your choice
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Posted: 2006-03-23 23:21:29
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