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On 2006-06-18 15:57:47, Luke-the-magic-man wrote:
ok firstly scapevlocity are you a femail member? (just wonderinf as I only know of 2 so far)

Also at aware (soz if I spelt your name right)

Unless she knows the guy form manchester as in fully meet him and talked face to face she will never get it on with him as talking on the net is allot different from talking on the net.

If your in year nine she should really consider the coices about sex, its not all its cracked up to be in some cases (i and lots of blokes personally luv it) but if its not in the right senario its no fun. I would say other things along this matter though am sure the post would be deleted/edited by the mods lol

The best thing you could do is talk to her about it, but to be honnest I think alllot of its just talk and not something that will happen. In the end if she wants to do things like that then its up to her and she will gain a reputation, though I think you will be alright and should get in there matey.

One problem you will have is talking to her, it seems to me that you 2 aint close? But you fancy her. This will make it hard to bring up such a serious topic, best thing to do is get a bit closer (and fast) possibly thorugh her mate then discuss this issue. If you just bring it up currently she will feel insulted that you feel you have to watch over her and protect her and it wont be pretty.

whats your view on sex before 16 though? These days many tenagers are having sex younger and younger, and to a degree it is becoming more and more acceptable.

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[ This Message was edited by: Luke-the-magic-man on 2006-06-18 15:02 ]

thanks luke - and btw you did spell me name wrong....erm...nope we aren't too close, but yes we are kinda....to be honest it's too confusing for me. i was going to tell her two things once i'd thought about it for a while...one, just what you said, that she'll get a reputation for it....and to be honest i'm not sure that i'd like her that much if she did have that kinda reputation....she'd be a very different person...i think....and secondly the fact that they may not like each other what-so-ever if they meet up. i truely hope so anyway....i know that i am going to have to put my feelings kinda aside....and just do what i can....but at the same time...if i make my feelings even more obvious (than they are atm (which i've been told they're kinda very obvious anyway...))....it might help....

as for sex before the age of 16, no i have not done, and to be honest i don't believe i will before 16, basically after we have been told all the stuff about if you make her pregnant, then it's your kid, you have to live with it and support it even if you don't want it...then yeh i'd love to have a kid....some day...but not now....and also...it would change my total aspect to the world....i'm fairly sure almost everything would change...

there's someone that's in my tutor at school, has a reputation for having sex with well....quite a few people....including someone else in me tutor....who's an absolute nob tbh....but telling her that people may think of her that people would think of her as the other girl, then it may snap her into it....

also, at my age....probably won't matter quite as much once i become an adult...as much...dunno - the fact that your partner would live the other end of the country to you....would just make me feel stupid...and also....i know she's rather into the whole myspace thing....which i just find boring lol...but might get into some day...and she seems to be interested in a number of people off there....just helps that most of the people live miles away....so i kinda have an advantage i suppose

lol - but also, she knows just how much i care about her....just how much if we did have a relationship that if we broke up i'd still want to be friends....even though i'm not sure she was listening at that time :S lol - and a number of other things...but also she's told me that i'm kinda different to everyone else she's mates with...which kinda isn't a suprise...but....also the fact that she told me that most guys don't notice when a girls upset, about to cry etc. i couldn't kinda believe this...it's just so obvious....and it kinda makes me upset too...

i know i've written far to much...but thanks guys for helping...i think i'm gonna have to re-read everything again and make a list of what i should do, decide what to do....and just do it basically (or maybe not do it (hehe i can be childish sometimes lol!))...well....all i can say is thanks alot...and i hope everything goes fine....and i get my way (told you i was being childish!)...i'll write back, to tell how it went etc....but also if anyone really has got anything else that would really help me...please tell me...fast....thanx!

awave - feeling slightly relieved....but now has butterfliez lol!
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Posted: 2006-06-18 17:17:56
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Luke-the-magic-man Posts: > 500

cool, good luck with it mate

one thing to do is chill, really helps and you never know not getting what you wanted could be best (not saying she will see the guy or nething - we can hope that doenst happen as i myself dont like the whole internet relationships - sad if u ask me, although i dont mind having friends online) I myself was stuck in a relationship with someone for just under 2 years and untill recently have broke it off, when I was seeing this person untill the end I thought it was great, but now looking back on it I can see how much it has cost me and ruined me as a person.

Keep us updated and again good luck

p.s. sorry I spelt your name wrong

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Posted: 2006-06-18 17:29:45
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awave Posts: > 500

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On 2006-06-18 17:29:45, Luke-the-magic-man wrote:
cool, good luck with it mate

one thing to do is chill, really helps and you never know not getting what you wanted could be best (not saying she will see the guy or nething - we can hope that doenst happen as i myself dont like the whole internet relationships - sad if u ask me, although i dont mind having friends online) I myself was stuck in a relationship with someone for just under 2 years and untill recently have broke it off, when I was seeing this person untill the end I thought it was great, but now looking back on it I can see how much it has cost me and ruined me as a person.

Keep us updated and again good luck

p.s. sorry I spelt your name wrong

hehe don't worry about the name....and the whole internet relationships thing...yeh it's kinda sad i agree....i hate it...almost got into one before...infact the other person believed we had a relationship :S very confusing....still talk to her...but i just don't see the point in having relationships, where you could not see your partner basically atleast 3 or 4 times a week....may be a bit to low but....yeh you know what i mean....would be best every day i bets hehe!

awave - whos gonna try and listen to some calming coldplay! lol
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Posted: 2006-06-18 17:36:48
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Luke-the-magic-man Posts: > 500

lol ive got coldplay goin right now funny that. Just don't listen to radio head lol
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Posted: 2006-06-18 17:53:37
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scapevlocity Posts: 290

luke - yeap i'm a girl. that obvious, eh?

Luke-the-magic-man Posts: > 500

@ - scapevlocity - thats awsome I now know 3 females on esato lol

Also prehapps you are overestimating her why would she get it on with some guy shes never met, to be honnest I think its a attempt to fit in with a more modern society and prove to others that shes grown up (although im no head doctor I just know what people thing and want to often)
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Posted: 2006-06-18 20:03:51
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awave Posts: > 500

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On 2006-06-18 19:12:22, scapevlocity wrote:
luke - yeap i'm a girl. that obvious, eh?

awave:
lol, i just turned 20 and i STILL don't feel the urge to "get it on" with anyone. but it's different for everyone, i guess.

what are your dream girl's views on sex, though? how do you know she's planning to have sex with her internet boyfriend? if she hasn't outright declared it, maybe you're underestimating her?

hmmm....she's kinda like told me and also i've over heard her telling her mates about plans....i know her mum's found a pic of his nob on their computer (over-heard this...i know i don't like doing it...but i can't help it...) and she said that her mum had known they had been planning for ages...and there's other things like that where i've over heard little bits....like a month ago...i asked her (txt) whether she had a bf, and she told me yes she did, but she was gonna dump him soon because she thought he was cheating and wanted to drive down (150+miles!!!), to have sex with her....and its the same guy....her best mate is kinda psycho but ok...she has a 'bf' in the states....internet again....and then basically the rest of her mates (which i'm kinda mates with aswell i suppose :S dunno....its just happened) think its stupid to have a net bf....i know i'm not gonna talk 14yr old girls into having sex with me when i'm 17....i suppose it kinda shows that hes an absolute nob if he's real....all i can think is why hasn't he got a gf that lives near him? - argh....i need to stop getting so stressed...

well...i suppose a dream-girl's views on sex, would be like....i dunno totally to be honest....but i don't feel the ultimate urge atm to loose me virginity lol - and neither would i want a girl to....i'll probably change once i leave home....well....when i go to uni :~P....and also i seriously don't want a kid lumbered on me when i'm only 16....so you get what i mean there...also....i'd be god damn far too embaressed to either steal or buy condoms at the moment...kinda good that i suppose....and also i'd hate to kill a baby, before it were born (ofcourse after it's born aswell...)

i think i better get her to read the bbc page about teen sex....i'm gonna go read it again to check my facts...

awave - who's in need of a hug! :~P lol
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Posted: 2006-06-18 20:20:19
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scottt Posts: > 500

lmao Esato turning into some agony aunt show, we need a Jeremy Kyle figure

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Posted: 2006-06-18 20:35:21
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scapevlocity Posts: 290

lol, when i said "dream girl," i meant the girl you're so stressed about.

but then again you still answered my question anyway. it seems as though she feels that she's ready to do it. lol, at 14 i was obsessed with cellphones and tomb raider and final fantasy games. either i was a weird 14-year-old girl, or times really have changed quite rapidly.

go the male protagonist of a romantic movie way: do a tell-all. lolz. no time like today.

sit her down, tell everything and all you feel about her, tell her she might be making the biggest mistake of her life, and that you have more respect and concern for her than that inkling of a pervert has. and that it would crush you if she ends up disappointed and ruined after she does the deed.

too scared to do it in person? tell her everything in a letter. (NOT in an e-mail.) girls love that. well, at least they used to. there's a scarcity of romantic guys out there. hopefully she's the kind of girl that likes romantics. lol. (i'm one of those picky girls, and i guess that's why i'll probably be a spinster. lol!)

there's a risk though: she might tell you to piss off and mind your own business. but if you really care about her, it's a risk you might just have to take.

luke - lolz, i only know of 3 other women on esato. i guess that's because most girls would much rather talk about shoes than phones.

[ This Message was edited by: scapevlocity on 2006-06-18 19:52 ]
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Posted: 2006-06-18 20:36:02
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Evil Eye Posts: > 500

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On 2006-06-18 20:03:51, Luke-the-magic-man wrote:
@ - scapevlocity - thats awsome I now know 3 females on esato lol

I know 5

@awave its sad, hope everything gets sorted out soon.

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Posted: 2006-06-18 20:36:00
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