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I have sent him an apology letter. I do not expect anything in return, i do not expect to be forgiven, but it was something i knew i must do even though i know even the thought of me would disgust him.
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Posted: 2009-04-11 22:34:38
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Sorry to hear that. I did a similar thing last year to my best friend of 6 years. We did what you did talk on the phone daily tell each other everything. We trusted each other but i accused her of something i realised she never did in the end. We never spoke for couple of months i just had to let the dust settle cos for a while she was resolute. But when her birthday came around i sent her a card with the word sorry inside just a simple sorry and she called me. All forgotten. Im not saying take few months just give it a week let things settle maybe write him a letter explain everything properly. He would think more of you if you took the time out to write him a letter saying sorry cos it will show him you still value your friendship. Dont pressure him that makes things worse. If after all these years if he still values your friendship on one mistake he will come round. Time is a healer suicide is not the answer. Just think of the people in your life left behind who do care for you they will be upset. We all make mistakes the best of us. Its humanity. Good luck.
[ This Message was edited by: Bonovox on 2009-04-11 22:02 ]
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Posted: 2009-04-11 22:54:00
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^^ wise words indeed.
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Posted: 2009-04-12 04:22:00
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Steady on old boy, things are never that bad no matter what you may think at the time. You are a living breathing human being and your life touches more than you can possibly know. You affect those around you and even though you may not always realise it there are people who love you and who think about you.
We are all imperfect, we all make mistakes, and we will all hurt those we love at some point. That is human.
It sounds as if you and your friend were very close, there is nothing that can break that bond. Things may be difficult just now, but time will heal the rift. It may not be quick, but it will happen. Until then you will have to be strong, you will have to keep your chin up, and bear that which is unbearable.
All you can do at the moment is what you have always done, be his friend. No matter if he rejects you, you must continue to be his friend. You must continue to offer him kind words even when he screams at you. You must be willing to drop everything for him even if he does not want your help. You must be there for him even when he orders you to leave. No matter what you must continue to be his friend.
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Posted: 2009-04-14 16:22:09
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This has got to be the worst thread ive ever seen. What did you do so bad? Told him you fancied him?
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Posted: 2009-04-16 15:42:09
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