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Let me make something crystal clear: you DO NOT start loving someone just because they love you too. Sure your BF loves you, that doesn't entitle you to love her too. If you don't then you don't, it doesn't matter if she does. Its like you're trying to be 'nice' by loving her back.
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Posted: 2008-01-22 11:01:36
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On 2008-01-21 11:37:59, leeboy13 wrote:
get stuck in....... youre young, enjoy youreself
its better to regret things youve done, than things you didnt do......
One question mate, How do you trap a monkey?
I can only say that listen to everybody, trust nobody and follow your heart. Remember that no one is perfect but true love is to love the imperfect perfeclty and from all imperfactions to form the image of your desires.
good luck
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Posted: 2008-01-22 13:55:55
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^^^ wave him a banana?
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Posted: 2008-01-22 14:21:10
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thnx guys!!! i really really appreciated ur advices...i guess i m just being mayb nice to her by loving her back cuz shes just so into me!! v have been frnds fr like 3 years nw...she understands me really well!!...sometimes i do try to avoid her just to make sure if i miss her or nt!...mayb i'll definitely feel guilty if i leave her just bcuz she doesn't look pretty to my eyes!....let me put it this way tht my heart loves her bt my mind doesn't excepts!!....mayb i did find true love bt i guess i m just blind!
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Posted: 2008-01-22 15:44:19
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You should ask first the girl whom you love, because some day you will think why you wouldn't ask her. Your friend loves you that not mean that you have to love her. When someone falls in love then he/she doesn't care to love by other one. You said you are friends for 2/3 years. So you know her very well, now try to know something about other girl whom you love. Then think who is best for you and the relationship will remain. Just one thing remember my friend, good looking doesn't work all time if she doesn't care about you.
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Posted: 2008-01-22 16:07:48
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On 2008-01-22 15:44:19, zuhib wrote:
thnx guys!!! i really really appreciated ur advices...i guess i m just being mayb nice to her by loving her back cuz shes just so into me!! v have been frnds fr like 3 years nw...she understands me really well!!...sometimes i do try to avoid her just to make sure if i miss her or nt!...mayb i'll definitely feel guilty if i leave her just bcuz she doesn't look pretty to my eyes!....let me put it this way tht my heart loves her bt my mind doesn't excepts!!....mayb i did find true love bt i guess i m just blind!
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If a leopardwas given the powerto possess wing mate, surely and definately we would to stop it from flying. Unless I am wrong my friend.
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Posted: 2008-02-01 15:48:09
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Muhammad-Oli Posts: > 500
Hey man, sounds like a bit of a problem you have there.
Is your friend (the one who loves you) your girlfriend? If so, I would stick with her. But if she is not, and to you she is just your best friend, then there is no need to hold yourself back. You can't be with her just because she wants you, you have to do what you want to do.
Have you had other girlfriends recently? If you have, then your friend should be used to it and so there shouldn't be too much of a problem with pursuing the other girl. She may be a little annoyed or upset but if she truly loves you, then she will stick around.
You seem young, and you've got your whole life ahead of you. See how the other girl goes and if it doesn't work out, I think your friend will still be around. Perhaps then you can give that side a chance.
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Posted: 2008-02-01 15:58:17
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