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@ max_wedge - its the exact same thing with me. This woman wants me to be there for her but does not want me to give her anything in return. She also told me the other day shes now seeing someone - but it wasnt so long back she told me she didnt even want a man in her life for the forseeable future, and that she just wanted to be by herself for a while. That was the excuse she gave me for not wanting to get into a relationship, but suddenly its all changed and now she does want a man.
On the phone the other day she told me "i dont mind you telling me how you feel but it bores me, im not interested and never will be, its boring because ive heard it all before", but then expects me to listen to everything that worries her, or is bothering her.
In regards to the men she does date, its always the same with her, she'll date men who are obviously never going to be right for her because shes never satisfied with what they can give her, and right now im the only man in her life that can give it.
Right now im very angry with her. Last night i spoke to her on MSN Messenger and all i got was a ton of abuse about things i've allegedly been saying to people. Shes always quick to jump to the conclusion everything she hears about me is the truth and im always being nasty, evil or negative towards her. I dont remember once, ever, being like that with her.
When i next see her, probably this Wednesday, im just going to tell her shes worn me down and i cannot be bothered anymore. I do care, but she'll never give me the chance to show it because she never lets me get close enough or prove myself to her, she never lets me show her the real me and is always quick to judge me as a bad person. To hell with her !
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Posted: 2006-03-27 09:04:20
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Whoot! We don't need these fickle princesses. Bugger 'em
"Scarlet Mah Deah, Ah don't give a damn"
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Posted: 2006-03-27 15:12:36
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If only i didnt love her so much though..
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Posted: 2006-03-27 17:55:27
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Love is blind
Good luck mate, just stick to your guns but be assertive with her - she'll either respond because she loves you or she'll disappear because she can't stand you having your own mind. Atleast then you will know.
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Posted: 2006-03-28 00:30:13
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Well once again last night we argued. Shes told me to delete her number from my phone, and never to call or text her again.
Why ? because i told her she does not care about me, and no matter how much she said she did i said she was lying, and i didnt believe her. She'll be out of my life friends wise, but i still have to work with her which is a major problem.
You're exactly right, she cant stand me having my own mind. On the phone last night she wouldnt let me speak and would hang up everytime i tried, and when we spoke on MSN messenger she kept blocking me everytime i tried to speak. She said "i wont let you have your say because you dont listen to anything i say" even though i get it rammed down my throat daily.
So be it, she can take a running jump, i feel much better and the bigger person for not acting how she did. The funny part is, she even got her male friend (who loves her and is used by her as a lapdog, remember..) to call me even though he didnt have my number before hand, and warn me off because she was upset and crying on the phone to him. Strange - when she was on the phone to me she was anything but upset, she was just abusive and angry !
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Posted: 2006-03-28 13:14:59
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Well done mate, that'll learn her! She'll probably come crawling back to you once this other knobhead fails to completely satisfy her.
Then you have the option to make certain demands, or simply take great pleasure in telling her to take a flying leap
PS, that wearenotafraid is an excellent site - it's fantastic that there are people out there not willing to be drawn into the fear based control that the government is trying to establish. What point a society where one limits one's movements and rights due to fear of terrorism?
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Posted: 2006-03-29 02:07:53
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Its a good site yeah.
Anyway, the fun continues for me. Last night she came on MSN Messenger to tell me she was blocking me and deleting my from being able to talk to her. I couldnt be arsed replying.
Then at 12.20am in the morning i start getting phone calls coming to my K750i, all from a withheld number. I answered it a few times and they wouldnt speak, just hung up. After 10 minutes it stopped. So, i got my other mobile phone ready (thinking it could possibly be her, since shes the only person pissed off with me atm..) and then after 20 minutes the crank calls started again. So, as they were calling me, i called her.
Possibly coincidental, but her phone was engaged ! then i did it again, and again, and her phone was always engaged. When the crank calls stopped for a few minutes i called her phone (withholding my own number) and it actually started to ring, and she answered. The fake "yawn, hello you woke me out of my sleep" didnt fool me, it had been her doing the crank calls. She hung up on me almost immediately and told me to f*cking die.
So i text her a couple of times, and she replied saying it wasnt her (aswel as a few other abusive texts), but i know it was. Anyway, i put my phone on silent and turned the vibration off so i couldnt hear anything from it. When i checked my phone this morning, i had missed about 40 calls from the withheld number, and the last one was at 1.52am, so she'd been calling me for over 90 minutes.
It would seem she doesnt like the fact i wont react to her anymore.
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Posted: 2006-03-29 10:58:49
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woah! Well done. Just goes to show how immature she is!! I hate to say it etaab (though you probably already know), but DO NOT EVER marry this woman!! Stay friends, sleep with her, whatever, but don't get shacked up.
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Posted: 2006-03-30 01:09:19
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Well, i saw her today and the first thing she did was have another tantrum with me, because id told her best male friend (the one whos told her hes in love with her) about the crank calls last night.
She said id been talking about her behind her back, which was untrue because i knew full well they'd speak about it, and i intended to confront her myself, as soon as i saw her.
She still says it was not her, and to be honest, ive not tried to bully it out of her. Instead, ive just attempted to make the peace and hopefully stay friendly. Even if nothing ever happens between us, i dont want us being enemies.
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Posted: 2006-03-30 01:42:45
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You've assertively called her bluff. She'll probably be more rational now.
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Posted: 2006-03-30 01:45:47
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