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hey, meths/kim/guys....
i'm back with another problem. and this one is kinda serious. its not about me, but a friend's predicament that i'm asking advise for.. okay here goes.
so, my friend JK is a successful accountant, making pots of money. but, the thing is he's pretty lonely, and isn't very good with the women. the thing is he is interested in women, but he always has expectations that are pretty high. he has a vision of this 'perfect' girl and kind of judges every girl he meets according to that yardstick.
i've tried telling him that its not the right way to go about it. also, he isn't very good at socializing. (maybe the bootcamp would've done him some good
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he hardly has any friends, and basically is a recluse. he's always believed that once he's professionally well settled, the personal life would sort itself out. but, even though he's pretty much settled, the love life isn't as well bloomed.
so, the thing i want to know is, how do i advise him on making new friends (of both sexes), and how do i convince him that the perfect girl probably doesn't exist. (he's adamant on finding the perfect one)
thanks!!
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Posted: 2004-12-07 18:32:00
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well, personally, i think he wont find the perfect girl, but he will find the soulmate, which does exist, i am sure of it!
YOU need to invite him round, watch a film and drink a few beers. if you make an effort, then he will really appreciate it and not feel so down in the dumps about life and what ppl think of him.
and then he will be a bit more confident. also, he should join tai-kwon-do, it really does boost ur self confidence and make you feel proud of yourself!
and lastly, you should advise him to love himself. there is a famous saying, that you cannot love others if you do not love yourself. encourage him to go out, get a nice suit, make himself look good, and he will feel more self esteem to make the first step with others and say, hey, come round to mine bitch for a hard night in bed
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Posted: 2004-12-07 18:46:56
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tai kwon do is a good idea!
he does need a lot of positive image building.
thanks vanquish!!!
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Posted: 2004-12-07 19:04:01
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thanks
btw: i didnt mean to say that you had to do everything, but if u are a good friend then it would help
BEAT YA TO IT METHS!
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Posted: 2004-12-07 19:29:52
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Well spending time at the strip joint always seems to help, especially if he is rolling in some serious cash. The girls there a near perfect (well at least the strip joints I go to) and I always willing to please...hey I even dated a few of them.
Remember boys and girls strippers are not sleazy they just hot sexy girls doing a damn good job of what they call a job....
I dont know if you all have strip joints in India but there are some seriously hot Indian babes around that I am sure you can persuade to do a little strip for your mate.
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Posted: 2004-12-08 01:16:57
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that's what i call advice!
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Posted: 2004-12-08 01:17:00
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Actually, you could combine both vanquish's and themarques' suggestions. Why not organise a boys night out, get a few beers, go to a club (not necessarily a strip club), and make sure your buddy has a good time, and gets to know the people your out with better. You need to help him get relaxed into talking with people first, dont throw him into the deep end. If he gets comfortable chatting and making friends with peope of similar background and circumstance, he will soon find it easier to talk to a more diverse range of people, including the mystifying, tantalizing holy grail, the laydeez.
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Posted: 2004-12-08 12:10:36
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Meths speaks from experience (occasionally if has relapses) so listen up!
This message was posted from a T610
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Posted: 2004-12-08 18:45:33
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yeah, meths finds it hard getting girls and mates
GET IN KIM!
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Posted: 2004-12-08 19:36:19
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thanks guys! i'll probably take him out this weekend. and hopefully he'll loosen up a bit.
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Posted: 2004-12-09 05:36:54
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